Wednesday, April 16, 2014

Double Standards

"To my niggas having bitches is what you just do. To the bitches having niggas is what a slut do." - Ab-Soul.....How much of a double standard is this? When a man has multiple women, its cool. He gets much respect from his boys, and even a few more females come crawling in his bed at night. Let a female do the same thing. They have words for us, somewhere along the lines of HOE or SLUT. But why? Simple! Throughout history, it was not a woman's place to be out and about. Our role was to stay home, tend to the millions of children, and do many chores to make sure that the house is up to par when the husband comes home. What I don't understand is the fact that it is now the year 2014, and women are bringing home twice as much money as a man can bring home....yet still be bonded to the age old theory that a woman is nasty for doing the same thing a man has been doing for years and years.....HAVING SEX! Why is it such a big issue? If a man can go out to the streets and pick up women at any given time, shouldn't a woman be allowed to do the same thing? She shouldn't be forced into ridicule and exile because of an age-old society rule. My opinion? LIFE IS TOO DAMN SHORT!!! If you feel as though you want to casually have sex, then by all means you are well within your right to do so.....man or woman. It's all about being happy with who you are and what you are doing. 

On the flip side, it's the same thing when men, who have had a homosexual experience, are automatically assumed gay. Based off of what? That one sexual experience? That's not fair considering the fact that you may not know the circumstances behind the experience. Maybe, he did it but didn't like it. However, let a female have her homosexual experience. Guys act like it's porn or something......the hottest shit they've seen. I could walk down the street screaming I kissed a girl, and the testosterone would be all over it.....and they'd come with questions about threesomes and dildos. Basically, it's nasty when one does it but not the other. Just like females having multiple men. It's nasty when women do it, but not for men. 

It's a double standard for a double standard. MORAL OF THE STORY: AGAIN, LIFE IS TOO DAMN SHORT??? Who cares if you decide to be straight after thinking you could be gay. Who cares if a woman wants to have two, three, four, five men at one time. That's not your life, it's theirs. This means that at the end of the day, they'll have to live with those choice, NOT YOU! Get over yourself, get over what society considers "normal', and go live your own life. 

Tuesday, April 15, 2014

The power of MUSIC has Pharrell in tears

When you think of music you just think of your favorite song,  maybe even the strange clothes 2 Chainz had on in his last video, or the fact that sometimes Weezy doesnt make sense. What we dont think about is how timeless it is. How its an artists permanent contribution to humanity. A record that will remain in our worlds history until the end. Its deeper than most people understand. Pharrell gets it and I applaud his contribution to our lives and memories of great music that will last forever.


Friday, April 11, 2014

Gay vs Straight Relationships: It Won't Make Life Better

I hear so many people talking about why they chose to be gay, or bisexual (or lesbian lol). I get all the usual stories. You know, "I was born this way", or "I just like such and such." But then there are those few ones that are just like, "I had a bad experience with him/her, so I thought that this would be better." My opinion? WTF were you thinking??? It does not matter if you decide to spend your time with a guy or a girl, a relationship is still a relationship. When people say stupid shit like that, I wonder if they think that aspects like trust, or, commitment, or quality time have a specific gender. Like life is so much better being gay or something! NO! It just doesn't work that way. Trust issues don't change just because you decide to explore the whiles of a female, instead of the usual male. Commitment doesn't just up and get better just because you made the decision to be with a man, instead of the usual female. Shit like that requires the same amount of effort, whether its a gay, straight, lesbian, or bisexual relationship. That's just like saying that getting through school would be easier if you were a different race. NO!! Getting through school would be easier if you put down the blunt and the bottle, and do some damn homework. All I'm saying is this: Nothing changes by being in a gay relationship (or vice versa). The issues are still there. The trust, the commitment, the time, the love, it's still there whether you want to try it with a man......or a woman. None of the aspects of a relationship will suddenly disappear. And another thing: Instead of trying to change who you are just to find love, maybe you should focus your brain on other things and let God be the guide to your soul mate.

Thursday, April 3, 2014

Dumbing Down the SAT: It Won't Help

I read an article today about The United States dumbing down the SAT for those that aren't academically inclined. My opinion? TOTAL BULLSHIT! What is this saying about the generations today? Maybe that the generation is incapable of getting the top score of 2400, or that we can't learn words that are obviously far out of our reading level. That's not going to help. Dumbing down the SAT just so the generation can slide into college easy is a no go for me. If the United States is so concerned about the welfare and education of the children growing up in this generation, why not implement some strategies that can ACTUALLY HELP! Tutoring those students that need the extra help or the extra push in school. Pushing students beyond their limits to prepare them to go to high school and then to college. Preparing students for the SAT and the ACT, so that when the time comes to face these tests, they'll be able to do it and do it successfully. This way they can get into top notch schools with impressive scores. Dumbing down the SAT is but a mere crutch, making it that much easier to fail when they get to the universities of their choice. They will have a much harder time adjusting to the material, especially at universities such as Duke, Cornell, Harvard, and Princeton because the government failed to properly educate our students. Educators at these colleges are not going to take pity on students that just can't do the work. Unfortunately, the United States can't see past sending unprepared students to college, make them pay a bunch of money on student loans for a degree that will only allow for them to make significantly less than those that haven't gone to college, therefore working some pointless ass job making just above minimum wage. This is not fair. This is what is going to send our students into a world of hard times because instead of pushing students to prep for important situations (such as taking the SAT), they dumb down the SAT just so society doesn't have to deal with students dropping out of college or not even going for that matter. I think it's a ridiculous idea. I think it's setting our kids up to fail tremendously. I think it's a waste of our children's education because if the government is willing to dumb down the SAT, what does that mean for daily learning at school? Are they going to make it easier for students to pass their classes by teaching them 2 + 2, instead of finding the linear equation using the quadratic formula. Colleges and universities are not going to recap on the concept of 2+2 or what does "apple" mean and use it in a sentence. It's just not fair to the students within this generation who are actually smart and are trying to get those top notch scores. This won't test their capabilities either. I feel sorry for those that agree with this. I feel even worry for the sorry ass government who came up with the idea that dumbing down the SAT would actually help students, instead of hurting them.......even though it's clearly the other way around.

*CHECK OUT THE ARTICLE*: http://guardianlv.com/2014/03/sat-to-be-dumbed-down-to-meet-todays-students-intellects/

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

R.I.P Frankie Knuckles


Frankie Knuckles 'The Godfather Of House Music ' passed away of complications related to Type II Diabetes. He was 59 years old.Knuckles was born in The Bronx in 1955 and began DJing in New York in the ’70s with Larry Levan. After moving to Chicago in 1977 he played at the famed Warehouse and then his own club, The Power Plant. He remained an integral part of house music throughout the decades, producing seminal records ‘Your Love’, ‘Baby Wants To Ride’ and ‘The Whistle song' and a Remixer for Michael Jackson,Luther Vandross ,and Toni Braxton.

 

Knuckles won the 1997 Grammy Award for Remixer of the Year, Non-Classical. In 2004, the city of Chicago - which "became notorious in the dance community around the world for passing the so-called 'anti-rave ordinance' in 2000 that made property owners, promoters and deejays subject to $10,000 fines for being involved in an unlicensed dance party" - named a stretch of street in Chicago[ after Knuckles, where the old Warehouse once stood, on Jefferson Street between Jackson Boulevard and Madison Street. That stretch of street, called Frankie Knuckles Way, "was renamed when the city declared 25 August 2004 as Frankie Knuckles Day. The Illiniois state senator who helped make it happen was Barack Obama.

R.I.P




Thursday, March 27, 2014

Focus On The Journey !!!!!!

"Focus on the journey not the destination ". I've heard that many times but i never got it .We all are striving for our goals under the notion that life will be better once that objective has been met, and and i trust that we work hard towards them. But sometimes it can be a bit draining, especially when you feel like that end goal is so far away.It dawned on me that we achieve more with no goals in mind, and your work should be your satisfaction.When i got involved in with my current endeavor i thought that i was going to be rich within 1 year (How foolish of me),now fast forward 4 years later i'm grateful that didn't happen because i would've lost my money and my mind (what's left of it). It's important to focus on the journey  because there will be time when we take a wrong turn or get stuck somewhere, it would count as lost time. Frustration and increasing pressure will get the best of you if don't love the process,and you'll quit (i don't know what that word means).
Focusing on the process is the way to success and i know people with great goals that gave up when their enthusiasm depleted.Goals might motivate you to get started with something, but they aren’t sufficient to keep you motivated.Success = hard work + preparation+ persistence, luck only shows up at dessert,and you'll only pass out if you attempt to sprint in a marathon.

Rapping over a College Degree: A Young, Black Man's Priorities

I think that it is funny how young black men would give up going to college and getting a degree, just for a rap career that may not happen. What is more funny is the fact that most of the past and present rap artists, that these black men look up to, actually have some type of degree. Most young men don't realize this simply because of the whole "Fuck School" mentality. So for those hard-headed black men that think that a college degree just isn't necessary, the artists, that I am about to name, beg to differ:
1. J. Cole has a Bachelors Degree in Communications, with a minor in Business from St. John's University.
2. David Banner has a Business degree for Southern University.
3. Ludacris has a Bachelor's degree in Music Management from Georgia State University.
4. Ice Cube allegedly has a Bachelor's degree in Architecture from Phoenix Institute of Technology.
5. Ryan Leslie has a degree in Government and Economics from Harvard University.
6. M.I.A. received her degree in Fine Arts, Video, and Film from London's Central Saint Martin's College of Art and Design.
7. Talib Kweli has a degree in Experimental Theatre Design from New York University.
8. Both Flava Flav and Chuck D (from Public Enemy) have a degree from Adelphi University.
9. Guru (from Gang Star) received a Bachelor's degree in Business Administration from Morehouse College.
10. Phonte (from Little Brother and The Foreign Exchange) has a Bachelor's Degree in English from North Carolina Central University.
And if that didn't convince you to obtain a college degree, even as back-up, here are a few others:
2 Chainz went to University of Alabama. Common went to Florida A&M University. Kanye West went to Chicago State University. Lil Wayne went to the University of Houston. And last, but not least, Rick Ross went to Alabama State University.

Still think that a college degree isn't important? If so, know that a college degree is very important. I understand that college isn't for everybody, and that is true. Not everyone can take on a heavy responsibility such as college (and college life), but to choose something so temporary as a rap career over furthering your education says a lot about the priorities these young black men have. My opinion? Not everyone can rap, just like not everyone can deal with college, but don't ever think that a potential rap career is more important than a degree that you can use at any given time....even if it's something to fall back on. If you want to rap, do that. Follow your dreams, but have a back-up plan just in case that dream is deferred.

http://www.myfoxphilly.com/story/22270400/why-is-teen-giving-up-college-free-ride-to-pursue-rap-career#.UzK1FFZfRIx.facebookJames

Monday, March 24, 2014

Nation Building

Most American Blacks are descended from Africans, who were brought here hundreds of years ago through no will of their own. Having their cultural identities stripped away, the descendants of these Africans have vague – if any- social and historical perceptive.
Without first-hand knowledge of their roots, many American Blacks can only shape their views of Africa based upon what has been said and written in both the media and distorted history books, which tells us of a continent full of war-torn countries, starving people and corrupt leaders, who continue to profit from the betrayal of its people. I didn't understand why a lot of blacks born in America had a issue with their heritage. In the early sixties it was insulting to be called black. But in the late nineteen sixties we were wearing our African clothing, our African head-dress. Too most people the Negro and colored phrases were dropped, black was most definitely in, and that's what most of us wanted to be called by other races.
Still today, some of the southern states and rural areas still call us coloreds or Negroes. While these phrases are insulting to most young and middle-aged African-Americans, there are older African-Americans that would prefer to be called colored or Negro. To be called black is insulting to them.
Then there are those "African-Americans or blacks" that are ashamed of being called African-Americans. If you ask them they will tell you they are not ashamed to be African-Americans. They say they would rather be called by their name than to be called a race.
On the flip side are the migrant Africans, from various parts of the continent, who are either unfamiliar or ambivalent with the past and continued struggle of American blacks. In some cases, these native-born Africans carry some of their own prejudices, which too have been perpetuated through the media. For example, believing that African-Americans are too racially ambiguous to be considered “full-blood” Africans or believing that Blacks harbor a deep-seated “chip on their shoulder” syndrome about slavery, which has prohibited them from fully taken advantages of the land of opportunity.
The result is that many native-born Africans and African-Americans have become ignorant to each other’s complex realities, choosing to maintain a separate identity and not fully capitalizing of each other’s various strengths.

However, while cultural differences remain, our shared future in a country, where racial discrimination and intimidation still exist, have a greater power to unite both sides of the same black coin. In other words, while we may continue to divide intra-racially, there are others, who only see “black” and will react accordingly – just ask the likes of Amadou Diallo and Sean Bell.
To bridge the divide, there must be a collective effort to develop a mutual respect and understanding of one another’s struggle, strengths and triumphs.  Our people, collectively, have to understand that colonization in some ways was no different than slavery and its impact of how we view ourselves, and each other, is all relative. Perhaps we are in need of another “Back to Africa” movement, like what was started by Jamaican-born Marcus Garvey, in which the primary focus is on educating, outreach and reconciliation of all people of African descent worldwide.
One could hope that African Americans and Africans alike will someday realize the importance of economic, political and cultural linkages with our brothers and sisters and embrace the term “African” no matter where they may reside in the Diaspora.