Message to the Sideline Hoe

There is nothing okay about being someone's back-up, or most widely referred to as "The Sideline Hoe'. Sideline hoes take this role way too serious. For all women with this role, you are not important. You have no power. These women have the idea that a man, who doesn't even belong to her, wants to be with her. My question is well, what makes you think he wants to be with you? Because he has sex with you, or he runs to you when shit just isn't going right at home? Let me tell you something. Real men only need one female. Real women only want to be the only one, not the main one and certainly not the main squeeze. It's a sign of pure desperation when a woman wants to lay next to a man knowing that that same man is going home to lay next to his wife. If this is you, you are stupid. See, it's a reason why you are just the mistress. He won't take you out in public. Why? Because he has a woman for that. He takes his wife in public just to make sure people never find out about you. He won't spend Christmas or Valentine's Day with you. Why? Because he has his own family. Don't ever think that holidays are to be spent with you. It hasn't, and will never, happen like that. He only calls you after 12 am. Why? Because 10 pm is the time most families are sleep, especially families with children. Oh, he won't give you children. Why? Because he already has is own family. He doesn't want from you what he already has at home. It just wouldn't make sense. There is no room for you. You are the female he calls when he can't deal with the real woman he has at home....the woman you want so bad to be, but simply can't. Otherwise, he'd be with you and not the woman he already has. Let this be a lesson to all women: If you are not a sideline, don't ever put yourself in a position to take on that role. You have too much self-worth and dignity to creep around with a man who can't even be faithful at home. If you are a sideline, you are a fool and you need to find your own man. Why? Because 1. You'll never have that luxury of being his woman. He will not leave his foundation for what he considers the hoe of the night. And 2. Because how you get him, is how you will lose him. If you don't know what I mean, I mean if he will cheat with you, he will most definitely cheat on you. Now, there are some men out there that are generally unhappy, and will decide to step out and find a replacement. Maybe he is planning on leaving his wife for you. But, why take that risk? Why risk him leaving you for someone else when he finds himself unhappy again? Don't waste your time, and don't end up the SIDELINE!